Thursday, August 31, 2006

cold read 7: bday sum

To find your love attitude number, add your birth month and your birth date
together. Keep reducing it until it's a single digit.
Example:
January 28
1+28 == 29
2+9 == 11
1+1 == 2;
your love attitude number is 2.

Read on below to find out what your love style is supposed to be. If your number
is:

ONE....
You are charming imaginative and independent. Usually your style is ahead of
others; you know what's in and what's way out. Sometimes you're a little too
aggressive when it comes to pursuing a love interest. You have a way of drawing
attention wherever you go, and this dramatic flair usually attracts the
strongest guys. Your competitive nature either draws or repels guys/gals...but
those who can't handle your power aren't your types anyway. At times you can be
possessive, manipulating and demanding with your friends and in love
relationships. You like guys/gals with lots of intelligence... and
knock-'em-dead good looks don't hurt either.

TWO....
Your love nature is sentimental, romantic and kind. Your easygoing, mild manner
allows almost everyone to feel very comfortable with you - especially shy
guys/gals. Your modesty and tact enable you to get along easily with both sexes.
You are a natural peacemaker and can be very persuasive with words, which helps
you to gain the respect of your classmates. You can also be too sensitive at
times, and your greatest drawback is a lack of confidence to stand up for
yourself in conflict. Your favorite type of guy/gal is gentle, affectionate, one
who is also strong and playful. A great sense of humor is also a must. A guy/gal
who loves to listen to music and dance should rank high on your list of
favorites, too.

THREE......
You are imaginative, fun-loving, thrill-seeking and expressive. You're so
charming that you attract many friends and you are almost never lacking
guys/gals. In your earlier years, you may be totally shy and self-conscious, but
you'll lose those qualities in the high-school years. You can be sort of vain or
even a bit of a show-off when you get caught up in exciting events in your life,
but you usually redeem yourself in some playful way before you lose a friend.
Jealousy shows its ugly head sometimes, but generally you aren't affected by it
unless your guy/gal tries to provoke it. In the guy/gal department, you prefer
the athletic or arti stic types. You're in absolute heaven when you find both of
those qualities in the same guy/gal. When you're looking for love, a guy/gal who
can make you laugh scores points, big time!

FOUR....
You tend to be loyal, dedicated and good hearted. You're one of the most
diligent students when you really try, and you tend to make your schoolwork a
priority. You also express those same qualities in your love relationship. No
one is more faithful and trusting than you. In fact, those tendencies can be a
little negative in your romantic life. You may sometimes hang on too long to a
guy/gal who doesn't give you the respect and love you deserve. You can be
stubborn and a bit of a troublemaker if the mood strikes you but you can usually
dig yourself out of that hole just in time to stay out of major trouble. You
usually fall for extremes when choosing a love mate - he/she may be a show-off
or a teacher's pet. Whatever the type, it helps if he/she is good-looking, too,
but that's not a major consideration for you.

FIVE.......
Your love attitude is adventurous, charismatic and spontaneous. Youâ€(tm)re creative
and adaptable, and you can come up with the most exciting and sometimes daring
things to do. Your quick intelligence and way with words help get you out of the
problems that come with being flirtatious and playing hard to get. You need to
pay close attention to your personal values because you love to try new and
different things and easily go along with the crowd and the consequences can put
extra strain on your relationship with a boy/girl. You like guys/gals who have
great bodies and good looks, along with exceptional brain and high grades. It
helps if th ey are highly athletic or involved in as many activities as you,
otherwise you might get bored! Variety is the key to your love attitude number.

SIX............
You are warm, loving, devoted and affectionate. Your outgoing, thoughtful nature
attracts many girlfriends/boyfriends to you and usually some of the nicest
guys/gals too. Because of your need to care, you can end up in a relationship
that requires too much care taking to make it balanced. Since home and family
play important roles in your life, you are unlikely to be attracted to guys/gals
who your parents wouldn't like. Sometimes you have a slight jealous streak...
but it doesn't last long. Some people with this love attitude number are prone
to making harsh judgements of others, especially when others don't share your
set of values. You are especially attracted to the good looking,
boy/girl-next-door type who is smart as well as a gentle man/woman.

SEVEN........
Your love nature is thoughtful, poetic, mystical and mysterious. A few people
with love attitude number seven are class clowns, and they usually attract
guys/gals who like to be given a hard time. But most of you are the quiet,
reserved types who dislike calling attention to yourself. Your type generally
attracts guys who feel the same way you do. Your refined, independent and
secretive nature is very alluring to certain guys/gals. At times you can also be
somewhat fault finding and a little demanding in your love relationship and with
friends. You are mostly attracted to guys/gals who aren't like all the rest; a
loner easily attracts y ou. And, if he/she reads a lot and enjoys learning,
he/she is especially perfect for you.

EIGHT.......
Your love attitude is confident, powerful and exciting. This number usually
makes for a very conscientious student, someone who puts schoolwork ahead of a
social life. However, you also enjoy being a leader among your classmates and
will seek offices or other positions that enable you to use your leadership
skills. Because of this, you can be somewhat intimidating to certain guys/gals.
You can also be a little too intense, bossy and jealous for your own good. Your
love match is definitely someone who is smart, handsome and popular. You like
quality over quantity and will usually wait until the guy/gal with the best
attributes comes along .

NINE........
You have a sophisticated attitude that is also generous and considerate. Your
responsible, charitable nature may find you attracting guys/gals who want
someone to confide in or who makes them feel secure. At a very young age, you
developed the type of personality that makes others feel safe and protected. You
will carry these qualities into your adult years and, down the road, you'll be a
good mom/dad because of them. On the negative side, you can be argumentative and
overly emotional, and you usually possess a temper that can make everyone run
for cover. You like the kind of guy/gal who is responsible and impeccably
dressed and has gorg eous eyes and a great body. Charm, wit and (of course)
brilliance could make him the perfect guy/gal for you.......

Thursday, August 24, 2006

Indians succeeds India fails

Swaminomics: Swaminathan S Ankalesaria Aiyer
In this last Swaminomics of the millennium, I would like to sum up our performance in the 20th century in one sentence. Indians have succeeded in countries ruled by whites, but failed in their own.

This outcome would have astonished leaders of our independence movement.They declared Indians were kept down by white rule and could flourish only under self-rule. This seemed self-evident. The harsh reality today is that Indians are succeeding brilliantly in countries ruled by whites, but failing in India. They are flourishing in the USA and Britain. But those that stay in India are pulled down by an outrageous system that fails to reward merit or talent, fails to allow people and businesses to grow, and keeps real power lies with netas, babus, and assorted manipulators. Once Indians go to white-ruled countries, they soar and conquer summits once occupied only by whites.

Rono Dutta has become head of United Airlines, the biggest airline in the world. Had he stayed in India, he would have no chance in Indian Airlines. Even if the top job there was given him by some godfather,a myriad netas,babus and trade unionists would have ensured that he could never run it like United Airlines.

Rana Talwar has become head of Standard Chartered Bank Plc, one of the biggest multinational banks in Britain, while still in his 40s. Had he been in India,he would perhaps be a local manager in the State Bank, taking orders from babus to give dud loans to politically favoured clients.

Rajat Gupta is head of Mckinsey, the biggest management consultancy firm in the world. He now advises the biggest multinationals on how to run their business. Had he remained in India he would probably be taking orders from some sethji with no qualification save that of being born in a rich family.

Lakhsmi Mittal has become the biggest steel baron in the world and 3rd richest person in the world, with steel plants in the US, Kazakhstan, Germany, Mexico, Trinidad and Indonesia. India's socialist policies reserved the domestic steel industry for the public sector. So Lakhsmi Mittal went to Indonesia to run his family's first steel plant there. Once freed from the shackles of India, he conquered the world.

Subhash Chandra of Zee TV has become a global media king, one of the few to beat Rupert Murdoch. He could never have risen had he been limited to India,which decreed a TV monopoly for Doordarshan. But technology came to his aid:satellite TV made it possible for him to target India from Hong Kong. Once he escaped Indian rules and soil, he soared.

You may not have heard of 48-year old Gururaj Deshpande.His communications company, Sycamore, is currently valued by the US stock market at over $ 30 billion, making him perhaps the fourth most richest Indian in the world. Had he remained in India, he would probably a babu in the department of Telecommunications.

Arun Netravali has become president of Bell Labs, one of the biggest
research and development centres in the world with 30,000 inventions and several Nobel Prizes to its credit. Had he been in India, he would probably be struggling in the middle cadre of Indian telephone industries.

Silicon Valley alone contains over one lakh Indian millionaires.

Sabeer Bhatia invented Hotmail and sold it to Microsoft for $400 million.

Victor Menezes is number two in Citibank.

Shailesh Mehta is CEO of Providian, a top US financial services company.

Also at or near the top are Rakesh Gangwal of US Air, Jamshd Wadia of Arthur Andersen, and Aman Mehta of Hong Kong Shanghai Bank. In Washington DC, the Indian CEO High Tech Council has no less than 200 members, all high tech-chiefs. While Indians have soared, India has stagnated.

At independence India was the most advanced of all colonies, with the best prospects. Today with a GNP per head of $ 370, it occupies a lowly 177th position among 209 countries of the world. But poverty is by no means the only or main problem. India ranks near the bottom in the UNDP's Human Development Index, but high up in Transparency International's Corruption Index. The neta-babu raj brought in by socialist policies is only one reason for India's failure. The more sordid reason is the rule-based society we inherited from the British Raj is today in tatters.Instead money, muscle and influence matter most.

At independence we were justly proud of our politicians. Today we regard them as scoundrels and criminals. They have created a jungle of laws in the holy name of socialism, and used these to line their
pockets and create patronage networks. No influential crook suffers. The mafia flourish unhindered because the have political links. The sons of police officers believe they have a licence to rape and kill (ask the Mattoo family).

Talent cannot take you far amidst such rank misgovernance. We are reverting to our ancient feudal system where no rules applied to the powerful. The British Raj brought in abstract concepts of justice for all, equality before the law. These were maintained in the early years of independence. But fifty years later, citizens wail that India is a lawless land where no rules are obeyed.

I have heard of an IAS probationer at the Mussorie training academy pointing out that in India before the British came, making money and distributing favours to relatives was not considered a perversion of
power, it was the very rationale of power. A feudal official had a duty to enrich his family and caste.Then the British came and imposed a new ethical code on officials. But, he asked, why should we continue to choose British customs over desi ones now that we were independent? The lack of transparent rules, properly enforced,is a major reason why talented Indians cannot rise in India. A second reason is the neta-babu raj, which remains intact despite supposed liberalisation.But once talented Indians go to rule-based societies in the west, they take off. In those societies all people play by the same rules, all have freedom to innovate without being strangled by regulations.

This, then, is why Indians succeed in countries ruled by whites, and fail in their own. It is the saddest story of the century.

Ancient ruins by atomic power

ANCIENT CITY FOUND,
IRRADIATED FROM ATOMIC BLAST
Radiation still so intense, the area is highly dangerous

A heavy layer of radioactive ash in Rajasthan, India, covers a three-square mile area, ten miles west of Jodhpur. Scientists are investigating the site, where a housing development was being built.

For some time it has been established that there is a very high rate of birth defects and cancer in the area under construction. The levels of radiation there have registered so high on investigators' gauges that the Indian government has now cordoned off the region. Scientists have unearthed an ancient city where evidence shows an atomic blast dating back thousands of years, from 8,000 to 12,000 years, destroyed most of the buildings and probably a half-million people. One researcher estimates that the nuclear bomb used was about the size of the ones dropped on Japan in 1945.


Did an ancient advanced civilisation exist on Earth? The question is very intriguing and the search for “evidence” to support a positive answer has intrigued Mankind for many decades – if not centuries. Many possibilities have been put forward, from outright statements that Atlantis was a high tech civilisation, to the possibility that the Nazca lines might be a prehistoric airport.

Rather than an accumulation of various items of evidence that is then subjected to the possibility that it might be either alien or advanced, it is more scientific – and perhaps better- to focus on the quest for the “best evidence”: a single piece of evidence that in itself is the best example to support a conclusion. In the search for an advanced ancient civilisation, what would be this “best evidence”?

One possible item that would classify as “best evidence” exists within the Indus River Valley, where towns such as Harappa and Mohenjo Daro flourished in 3000 BC. The question is why these cities were abandoned. And one answer that has been put forward is that the ancient cities might have been irradiated by an atomic blast. If true, it would be impossible to ignore the conclusion that ancient civilisation possessed high technology.

The ruins of Harappa


The story begins when a layer of radioactive ash was found in Rajasthan, India. It covered a three-square mile area, ten miles west of Jodhpur. The research occurred after a very high rate of birth defects and cancer was discovered in the area. The levels of radiation registered so high on investigators’ gauges that the Indian government cordoned off the region. Scientists then apparently unearthed an ancient city where they found evidence of an atomic blast dating back thousands of years: from 8,000 to 12,000 years. The blast was said to have destroyed most of the buildings and probably a half-million people.

Archeologist Francis Taylor stated that etchings in some nearby temples he translated suggested that they prayed to be spared from the great light that was coming to lay ruin to the city. “It’s so mind-boggling to imagine that some civilization had nuclear technology before we did. The radioactive ash adds credibility to the ancient Indian records that describe atomic warfare.” When excavations of Harappa and Mohenjo-Daro reached the street level, they discovered skeletons scattered about the cities, many holding hands and sprawling in the streets as if some instant, horrible doom had taken place. People were just lying, unburied, in the streets of the city. And these skeletons are thousands of years old, even by traditional archaeological standards. What could cause such a thing? Why did the bodies not decay or get eaten by wild animals? Furthermore, there is no apparent cause of a physically violent death. A. Gorbovsky, in Riddles of Ancient History, reported the discovery of at least one human skeleton in this area with a level of radioactivity approximately 50 times greater than it should have been due to natural radiation. Furthermore, thousands of fused lumps, christened “black stones”, have been found at Mohenjo-Daro. These appear to be fragments of clay vessels that melted together in extreme heat.

Another curious sign of an ancient nuclear war in India is a giant crater near Bombay. The nearly circular 2,154-metre-diameter Lonar crater, located 400 kilometres northeast of Bombay and aged at less than 50,000 years old, could be related to nuclear warfare of antiquity. No trace of any meteoric material, etc., has been found at the site or in the vicinity, and this is the world’s only known “impact” crater in basalt. Indications of great shock (from a pressure exceeding 600,000 atmospheres) and intense, abrupt heat (indicated by basalt glass spherules) can be ascertained from the site.


With the apparent discovery of this radiated area, parallels were quick drawn to the Mahabharata, the Indian epic. It reads:

... (it was) a single projectile
Charged with all the power of the Universe.
An incandescent column of smoke and flame
As bright as the thousand suns
Rose in all its splendour...

...it was an unknown weapon,
An iron thunderbolt,
A gigantic messenger of death,
Which reduced to ashes
The entire race of the Vrishnis and the Andhakas.

...The corpses were so burned
As to be unrecognisable.
The hair and nails fell out;
Pottery broke without apparent cause,
And the birds turned white.

After a few hours
All foodstuffs were infected...
....to escape from this fire
The soldiers threw themselves in streams
To wash themselves and their equipment.

Whereas the story of the Mahabharata is indirect evidence, the other discoveries in India pose serious problems for those trying to deny the possibility that this might indeed be evidence of ancient atomic warfare. Whereas believing in the existence of Atlantis or a highly advanced civilisation that might not have left any trace is one thing, to suggest that our ancestors might have wiped themselves out along the same lines we almost did, but only fifty years ago, is a major paradigm shift. Some sceptics thus stated: “I am sick and tired of hearing this, and I cannot find any debunks of this either. Anyone who can debunk this, or is this really true?” That is indeed the question… and an important one. The stakes are high, as one would expect when facing with the best evidence.


Lonar crater


So, let us discover what might be the best evidence. The first question is whether a Francis Taylor existed. There is a Francis Taylor, an American museum director, who died in 1957. He was not an archaeologist. There is a “Franciscio Taylor”, but he is not the above quoted Francis Taylor.
Not a good start. Sceptics have also wondered whether the ancient atomic warfare is not a modern invention, to deflect attention from a serious – modern – atomic contamination. In 1998, it was reported that an Indian power stations had some major problems. One had an incident in which 2000 workers became exposed to excess radiation, 300 of which had to be hospitalised.
Surendra Gadekar also investigated the conditions of villagers at Rawatbhatta in
Rajasthan and discovered gross radiation-related deformities. We note that Rawatbhatta is in the same region as the discovery of the “ancient warfare” site.

But Gadekar did not find evidence of ancient warfare, but evidence of modern negligence: wood that had been used in the power plant, had then “somehow” made his way into society, where it was subsequently used as wood for a fire. This in itself was a minor incident, but could there have been more serious incidents, whereby it was decided to deflect attention from the present to the ancient past?
We thus find that there no newspapers carried the story of the discovery. The Indian archaeological authorities are not aware of the story. And there is a government laboratory in Jodhpur, Rajasthan. Might something have gone wrong in the latter?

The nuclear facility at Rawatbhatta

With the above objections, the case for the best evidence has become more controversial than a clean-cut case. But in a case such as an ancient high tech civilisation, this should not come as a surprise. Rome was not built in one day, and arguing for or against the case of an ancient highly advanced civilisation will not take any less time.

There should also not be a rush to judgment: the case for ancient warfare in India is currently better than any contradictory evidence. The bodies of Harappa and Mohenjo Daro remain a mystery, whether or not the other radioactive site turns out to be modern or ancient. The anomalous crater adds power to the possibility. Finally, the fact that all these enigmas are within one general region (as opposed to scattered across the world) adds further weight to the case… but then this should be expected if we might consider this case to be the best evidence.
The problem of the “best evidence” is often that it sounds too good to be true. That is either because it is, or because it is indeed the “best evidence”. And only careful analysis of the evidence will reveal what it is…

One of the guys who developed teh A-Bomb for the US during WW2
said after the war that when he first tested the A-Bomb is was the first time in recent history that nukes were used here on earth.
he was aware of what happened at those two cities.His name was R. J. Oppenheimmer

source:
http://www.philipcoppens.com/bestevidence.html

Tuesday, August 22, 2006

Good compromise or Bad compromise

A guy, who I'll call Bob, had developed a strong level of confidence, and decided to go for the kind of job he really wanted. In Bob's case, that job was in the area of real estate. Bob got his license, applied for a real estate position, got an interview, aced the interview, and was now working for a real estate company. He had to work with a "seasoned agent" initially, so as to learn the ropes. Bob felt he was smarter and could do better than the "seasoned agent." So he would challenge the "seasoned agent" on things like how to present the "features and benefits," and when to use the potential buyer's name, and how to "go for the close." The way Bob saw it, he was establishing his dominance. However, what Bob failed to take into consideration, was that the "seasoned agent" was the one who was grading his performance, and would be the voice the higher ups would listen to in regard to Bob's worthiness to remain employed by them. So, due to his defiance and frequent disagreeing with the "seasoned agent," Bob found himself failing his probationary period. He was let go. Bob was of course angry about this, and felt that the "seasoned agent" felt inferior to Bob's superiority.
But here's where Bob stumbled.
He had a bad strategy. He could have simply made suggestions, offered alternative ideas, and if the "seasoned agent" didn't agree, Bob should have just let it go. After all, once Bob was free to show homes on his own, he would also be free to do things his way. In other words, he was only "stuck" with the "seasoned agent" for a limited amount of time, then he would be given the chance to go out alone with potential buyers. So he should have compromised by doing what I call "allow them to be wrong."

Compromise is not bad, provided you're doing it for the right reasons. I'll go more deeply into that in a moment, after I finish the point I'm making.
When you "allow them to be wrong" it means that even though you know that you're right, you also know that it's unproductive to sit there and argue the point. (For example, if you know you saw a blonde walk by in a red dress, but your friend insists that it was an orange dress, is it really worth it to sit there and argue about it? Of course not. So you allow your friend to be wrong, and move on.) How it applies to Bob, is that despite his certainty that his suggestions and ideas were valid and correct, arguing about it with the "seasoned agent" was an unproductive move. It was required that he shadow this "seasoned agent" so Bob had to either make the best of that requirement, or if it was more than he could tolerate, work someplace else.

There are going to be times when you have to interact with people you feel you are more qualified than, and more talented than. But it will be unproductive to sit there and argue who's got the better idea, when you can just "allow them to be wrong" and go do whatever you wanted to do when the oppoutunity to do so comes. Additionally, never ignore the fact that even "ignorant" people can provide you a nugget of useful knowledge. Learn from EVERYONE. I truly believe that there are no bad encounters, just missed chances to learn something. Personally, I hear from many people all the time who try and use my dark past against me. I screwed up, I know that. I hurt people, I know that. But some people like to use that knowledge as a weapon against me, while I use their words as a learning tool. Sure, I'll verbally slap them, especially if they get their facts wrong. But even then, I do it in a way that is fun and funny, instead of a way that's belittling and attacking. Their anger, their sharp words, serve me in testing who I AM versus who I WAS. Without them, I would only have people praising me, and that doesn't challenge me the same way. So, again, learn from even the people you feel you are "better" than. There have been MANY times when someone I had little or no personal respect for, would say something along a certain line of thinking, and even though I disagreed with them, there would be a word or a phrase they said that would send me on this amazing line of thinking. By me being open to these kind of "gifts" even from people I did not personally care for, it has rewarded me with some incredible personal discoveries.

Okay, now let's talk about this "compromise" issue.
Good compromise has flexibility, while bad compromise has supplication.
Okay, let's flesh this out!
Let me present a situation that a neighbor asked me about, and we'll go from there.

There is a person named "T" who has no car, only a bicycle. "T" uses the bicycle to get to work. Well, someone stole "T's" bicycle one day, so now "T" gets a ride to work from "Q." One day "Q" asks "T" to pitch in some gas money, but "T" doesn't want to. The way "Q" sees it, "Q" is doing "T" a favor, so asking for gas money is a fair request. The way "T" sees it, "Q" and "T" work at the same place, and live in the same apartment complex, so "Q" is not going anywhere "Q" wouldn't normally go to anyway.

So here's my question to you: If "T" were to pay "Q" some gas money, would "T" be compromisng in a flexible way, or compromsing in a supplicating way?

The answer is based on justification.
If "T" pays "Q" out of fear of losing a ride to work, then that's compromise in a supplicating way. If "T" pays "Q" because "T" fears losing the friendship of "Q" then that too is compromise in a supplicating way. However, if "T" pays "Q" gas money because "T" realises it's cheaper than taking the bus, then that would be an example of compromise in a flexible way. Also, if "T" were to acknowledge that "Q" is indeed doing "T" a favor by providing a ride, and as a result paid "Q" gas money, that too is compromise in a flexible way.

To make it more clearly understood, I'll put it this way. If you compromise because you think you'll LOSE something if you don't, then that's a compromise powered by fear, and that's supplicative. But if you compromise because it gets a mutually benefitial result, then that's being flexible in the compromise.

Understand now?

-Bishop New Alpha mailbag

Monday, August 21, 2006

Facts of LIFE

1. No matter how far down the wrong road you've traveled, always turn
back.


People hate to lose time "invested" in a task they have
miscalculated on. Time is the most scarce resource of life, yet its
taken for granted by those who are too proud to admit they made a
mistake.

Not too long ago, I chased a girl I shouldn't have. The warning signs
were there from the start, but I ignored them because I was seduced
with the idea of sleeping with her. By date five, I went so far in the
wrong direction that turning back seemed like the harder route to take.
I couldn't just let go of all the money, time, and emotional energy I
put in. The easy decision is to coast and let the mistake ride out, but
it's always the wrong decision. You must cut your losses.

There is nothing wrong with making a mistake, but you make things worse
by staying blind to your own error. Don't bother trying to fix a
situation you should have avoided in the first place.

2. Comfort is dangerous.

Unless you are of old age and already a scholar of the world, your main
focus should be growth. If you are comfortable with what you are doing,
there is a good chance you are not stretching yourself to the limits of
your ability.

The director of my old department had a habit of putting up
motivational quotes during his presentations. I had a favorite:
"There is no growth in the comfort zone, and no comfort in the growth
zone." You get drawn into comfort and habit because it offers you
stability and peace of mind, but at the same time this decreases your
motivation to take risks and learn other things. Unless you are ready
to die, choose growth.

3. You learn the most when things go wrong.

It's hard to learn about yourself if everything goes right: there is
no need for introspection or analysis. But when things go wrong, your
body is put through stress and your mind is called up to perform. You
are forced to break things down to come up with solutions, trying
things you've never tried. This is the only time you really grow as a
person.

4. Always stand up for yourself.

Don't take bullshit from anyone, whether it be from your boss, lover,
or friend. No one in this world is more important than you are.

I have been disrespected by flakey women countless times. I accepted
the disrespect because I thought it was normal to take a little bit of
abuse to get something I wanted. But I no longer believe that. If you
have a belief that it is okay to be treated negatively, it's just a
matter of time until it happens - repeatedly. Don't let people
flake, rag on you, or put you down. These are things that are not
normal, things that will only lower your mood. Don't be a pushover,
don't be afraid to stand up for yourself, and don't be afraid of
confrontation.

5. Know when to move on.

After you've hit the point of diminishing return, the energy you put
in is much less than what you get out, whether it be from jobs,
relationships, friendships, or hobbies. Don't wait until things get
stale; by then you've waited too long

6. Respect your health and body by exercising and eating right.

There is no reason to treat yourself like a science experiment,
wondering what will happen to your body after decades of neglect or
abuse.

You only one have one life to live. Exercise and good nutrition are
proven to prolong that life and make it more vibrant with less
suffering. So what's your excuse? It's a poor bet to let your body
atrophy because you wanted to sit on the couch and eat a bag of potato
chips. The most unfortunate thing that could happen to you is to get a
disease or sickness that could have been prevented by doing something
your body would have very much appreciated.

7. Have a project.

Always be working towards a near-term goal. It's nice to have one
large purpose in life, but pick some smaller goals that you can
accomplish is a few years or less: buying a house, learning a second
language, running a marathon, eliminating credit card debt (through
simpler living), traveling the world, etc. The project should be your
passion... for a while.

In Venezuela I hiked up to some cabin so a Frenchman could take me on a
horseback riding tour through the Andes mountains. He spoke good
English so we had the opportunity to talk during breaks, where he told
me his life story though his "projects": short goals he would have
that would usually lead to something else. The project that led him to
the Venezuela was the desire to build a boat from scratch. When a
hurricane washed ashore his boat was destroyed and he wound up in a
strange city where he met his future wife. He asked me point-blank what
my project was and I did not have an answer.

Instead of aimlessly floating through life, waiting until something
happens to you, pick something interesting you like and drive towards
it. Even if it doesn't lead you anywhere, the journey is sure to
teach you a bit about life.

8. Don't nag, complain, or whine.

No one wants to hear it, and it makes you look like a miserable person.
Negative energy is contagious; bad people and bad events always follow.

I had a colleague who did not hit the genetic lottery. She was short,
stumpy, and unattractive. She did not hide the fact that she had
trouble meeting men. While she could only do little to control her
physical appearance, she could control how she acts around others. She
could be lively, sexy, thoughtful, positive, funny. But she was not.
She chose to be constantly negative, complaining about everything and
talking about how bad life is. It was impossible to be around her, and
I won't be surprised if you tell me she has amassed a fine collection
of cats by now.

Remember: your energy is tied into your future. If you are constantly
negative, you are blocking yourself from enjoying positive things.
This is what you always do sheel. And this is solo reason you aint happy!

9. Be like water, flowing effortlessly through your environment.

A weak person is easily affected by the daily problems of life. Instead
of fighting things that are sure to come up, adapt to them and solve
them rationally. Things won't always go your way.

"It is not the strongest of the species that survive, nor the most
intelligent, but the one most responsive to change." -
Charles Darwin.

Welcome to the human condition. Like housing prices or stocks, there
will be peaks and valleys in your life that you probably cannot
control. Car breaks down. Job layoff. Disfiguring acne breakout. Crime
victim. Broken heart. You could attempt to buffer yourself from these
negative events, but it will limit your personal freedom and options in
life. Instead, accept that there will be both good and bad; how you
react to both determines your character and resilience as a person. You
can panic like most people when confronted with a tough challenge, or
you can sit down and visualize what it would be like to get out of the
mess you are in. What's the next step you should take? Time will go
by, and the negative will soon be a distant memory.

10. Treat money as a means to an end.

Money should not be your final goal. There may be comfort in a pile of
cash but there is little lasting happiness. Instead, treat money as a
means to providing you with experiences that have meaning and pleasure.


There are two things you could do with your money: accumulate material
possessions or pursue life experiences. Can you guess which one makes
you more happy? If it's so obvious, why do people dedicate a large
chunk of their waking hours every week in jobs that have long ago
satisfied basic needs such as food, shelter, clothing, and leisure?
When you live in a country whose government is funded through debt and
whose economic health is judged through "comsumer" spending, it's
not hard to see how one has to be deprogrammed from falling into the
automatic habit of spending money on objects. That money is better
spent finding things you love that give you fulfillment.

11. Read.

A million books and a million different perspectives. Until you can
learn from first-hand experience, learn from the experience of others.
Absorb their ideas and see how they fit into your view of the world.

One of the best uses of your time is spent reading non-fiction, which
has the knowledge, information, and analysis that helps define the
world we live in. Think of a bookstore or library as a collection of
brains from all the scholars of the history of the world, who have
taken the time to write and teach what they know. I can spend a
lifetime traveling the world ten times over but not notice things that
others have already written down.

12. Have no expectations.

When you enter situations with expectations, you limit your behavior
and thinking. Having an idealized outcome in your mind beforehand
closes yourself off to new experiences.

Once I met a girl who warned me several times that I wasn't going to
get anywhere. She assumed I wanted to be somewhere else other than the
present, that what I was doing now was not what I really wanted to do.
As long as you are getting the most out of the current moment - and
enjoying it - what happens next should not be the dominant thought in
your mind. We already see the world through a filter, and expecting
things to happen in the future distorts that filter even more.

What did happen next with her was something totally different from what
I'm used to, something that I would have closed myself off to if I
had the usual in mind. Having expectations put you into a linear and
rigid mode of thinking, blinding you towards different outcomes.

13. Be very picky when choosing friends.

It's our friendships that create the spontaneous happiness in our
lives, experienced most with people who match our personality. By
spending time with the right people, we eliminate the drama that comes
from more superficial friendships.

On any given night, there are only three guys I can call to go out
with; guys who I trust and who I know I'm capable of having the most
amount of fun with. For people who collect friends like trading cards,
I wonder if they have taken a look at the hidden cost to maintaining
those friends: misunderstandings, gossip, backstabbing, fights. These
things are headaches and make life a little less enjoyable. Think of
friendships as the foundation of your life, the constant that gets you
through the long, stressful days. You don't want that built on slimey
ground.

14. Rehearse.

It is not a good idea to experiment in critical situations. Practice
when it doesn't matter so that you are preapred for the real deal. If
you can't get real-world practice, at least run the situation in your
head.

My plane departed Merida, Venezuela at 6:30 in the morning. I had to be
at the airport an hour before, at a time where I wasn't sure if I
could easily get a taxi. Only 1.5 miles away, I figured a good back-up
plan was to walk to the airport, but I wasn't going to risk taking
this walk without practice, especially since the streets are narrow and
dangerous. The day before departure I took my time walking and found
the safest route to the airport, memorizing key landmarks and noting
potential danger spots. When it was time to leave, I couldn't find a
taxi and executed what I already rehearsed. My route was well-lighted
and I got there in one piece without getting lost.

Instead of leaving things totally chance, do what you can to lessen the
likelihood of failure, or even worse - disaster.

-REDPILL

Law Of SEEDS

An apple tree has around 300 apples, each with 10 seeds. That's
3000 seeds. How many more apple trees will grow from these seeds?
Only a few; certainly not 1500 (half), let alone 3000 (all).

What can we learn from this? What nature is telling us is that
"Most seeds never grow, or will never have a chance to grow. So if
you want success you have to try more than once."

Laws of nature are the same for everyone. So, just like gravity,
this law applies to me, to you, and to the rest of the world. So
why would you take a law of nature personally?

Did the Wright brothers say: "Why doesn't gravity like us?" when
they were trying to build an airplane. Of course not, they just
made the necessary adjustments and moved on to a different model.
So why take rejection personally? After all, it's just "The Law of
the Seed" at work

Post from DJ

Reality is an illusion

I was thinking lately loads of reality sounded illusion to me. Loads of trait i came across felt that this cant be true. This isn't part of my reality and in my existence. And I was so right.

http://www.simulatedworlds.com/main.html

Also I found you can adapt to reality. Thanks to Hynotica tapes
http://www.hynotica.org.


It is funny that what i have been researching on is something what other have proved too.

Monday, August 14, 2006

Indigo Child

Thanks to my friend Asterix, I discovered that I am Indigo Child. It is some what boon some what disorder.

http://www.indigochild.com/

For more details:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Indigo_children

As a summary, here are the ten attributes that best describe this new kind of child, the Indigo Child

1. They come into the world with a feeling of royalty (and often act like it)

2,They have a feeling of "deserving to be here," and are surprised when others don't share that. Self-worth is not a big issue. They often tell the parents "who they are." They have difficulty with absolute authority (authority without explanation or choice).

3. They simply will not do certain things; for example, waiting in line is difficult for them.

4. They get frustrated with systems that are ritually oriented and don't require creative thought.

5. They often see better ways of doing things, both at home and in school, which makes them seem like "system busters" (nonconforming to any system).

6. They seem antisocial unless they are with their own kind. If there are no others of like consciousness around them, they often turn inward, feeling like no other human understands them. School is often extremely difficult for them socially.

7. They will not respond to "guilt" discipline ("Wait till your father gets home and finds out what you did").

8. They are not shy in letting you know what they need.

Friday, August 11, 2006

Coldread6: Personality CHeck

Number you paper 1 to 10 first.

1. When do you feel at your best?

a) in the morning

b) during the afternoon and early evening

c) late at night


2. You usually walk.....

a) fairly fast, with long steps

b) fairly fast, with little steps

c) less fast head up, looking the world in the face

d) less fast, head down

e) very slowly

3. When talking to people, you...

a) stand with your arms folded

b ) have your hands clasped

c) have one or both your hands on your hips

d) touch or push the person to whom you are talking

e) play with your ear, touch your chin or smooth your hair


4. When relaxing, you sit with...

a) your knees bent with your legs neatly side by side

b) your legs crossed

c) your legs stretched out or straight

d) one leg curled under you


5. When something really amuses you, you react with...

a) a big appreciated laugh

b) a laugh, but not a loud one

c) a quiet chuckle

d) a sheepish smile


6. When you go to a party or social gathering, you...

a) make a loud entrance so everyone notices you

b) make a quiet entrance, looking around for someone you know

c) make the quietest entrance, trying to stay unnoticed


7. When you're working or concentrating very hard, and you're
interrupted, you...

a) welcome the break

b) feel extremely irritated

c) vary between these two extremes


8. Which of the following colors do you like most?

a) Red or orange

b) black

c) yellow or light blue

d) green

e) dark blue or purple

f) white

g) brown or gray


9. When you are in bed at night, in those last few moments before going
to sleep, you lie...

a) stretched out on your back

b) stretched out face down on your stomach

c) on your side, slightly curled

d) with your head on one arm

e) with your head under the covers


10. You often dream that you are...

a) falling

b) fighting or struggling

c) searching for something or somebody

d) flying or floating

e) you usually have dreamless sleep

f) your dreams are always pleasant

Answers
1. (a) 2 (b) 4 (c) 6

2 . (a) 6 (b) 4 (c) 7 (d) 2 (e) 1

3. (a) 4 (b) 2 (c) 5 (d) 7 (e) 6

4. (a) 4 (b) 6 (c) 2 (d) 1

5. (a) 6 (b) 4 (c) 3 (d) 5 (e) 2

6. (a) 6 (b) 4 (c) 2

7. (a) 6 (b) 2 (c) 4

8. (a) 6 (b) 7 (c) 5 (d) 4 (e) 3 (f) 2 (g) 1

9. (a) 7 (b) 6 (c) 4 (d) 2 (e) 1

10. (a) 4 (b) 2 (c) 3 (d) 5 (e) 6 (f) 1


Now add up the total number of points.

OVER 60 POINTS:

Others see you as someone they should "handle with care."
You're seen as vain, self-centered and one who is extremely domineering.

Others may admire you, wishing they could be more like you, but don't
always trust you, hesitating to become too deeply involved with you.

51 TO 60 POINTS:

Others see you as an exciting, highly volatile, rather impulsive
personality; a natural leader, one who's quick to make decisions,
though not always the right ones.

They see you as bold and adventuresome, someone who will try anything once; someone who takes chances and enjoys an adventure.

They enjoy being in your company because of the excitement you radiate.

41 TO 50 POINTS:

Others see you as fresh, lively, charming, amusing, practical and
always interesting; someone who's constantly in the center of
attention, but sufficiently well-balanced not to let it go to their head.
They also see you as kind, considerate, and understanding; someone
who'll always cheer them up and help them out.

31 TO 40 POINTS :

Others see you as sensible, cautious, careful and practical.
They see you as clever, gifted, or talented, but modest. Not a person
who makes friends too quickly or easily, but someone who's extremely
loyal to friends you do make and who expect the same loyalty in return.
Those who really get to know you realize it takes a lot to shake your
trust in your friends, but equally that it takes you a long time to get
over it if that trust is ever broken.

21 TO 30 POINTS :

Your friends see you as painstaking and fussy.
They see you as very cautious, extremely careful, a slow and steady plodder.
It would really surprise them if you ever did something impulsively or
on the spur of the moment, expecting you to examine everything
carefully from every angle and then usually decide against it.
They think this reaction is caused partly by your careful nature.

UNDER 21 POINTS:

People think you are shy, nervous, and indecisive, someone who needs
looking after, who always wants someone else to make the decisions and
who doesn't want to get involved with anyone or anything!
They see you as a worrier who always sees problems that don't exist.
Some people think you're boring.

Thursday, August 10, 2006

Evolution of New species of MEN


Death of Y may spawn new human species
Judy Skatssoon
ABC Science Online
Thursday, 10 August 2006
http://abc.net.au/science/news/stories/s1710838.htm


The chromosomes we have today may not be the ones we'll have in 15 million years. So, what will this mean for the future of our species? (Image: iStockphoto)
The pending demise of the Y chromosome could give rise to a whole new species of human, a professor of comparative genomics says.

Scientists have been speculating about the demise of the Y chromosome for some years now but Professor Jenny Graves of the Australian National University in Canberra has come up with a bold new twist on the theory.

Graves, who has been working on sex chromosomes in marsupials, will present her theory at the 11th International Congress of Genetics in Brisbane today.

She will tell the conference that new 'male making' genes on other chromosomes could step up to do the job of the Y chromosome's SRY gene, which is the key to making males male.

But this could mean men without Y chromosomes would split off from those with, eventually evolving into a new species of hominid.

"It's quite possible that you could make new hominid species that way," she says.

When two populations become two species

Graves says men without a Y chromosome would be largely infertile. But a small number would reproduce and pass the new sex determining gene to their children.

Eventually the group with the new gene would separate from the Y gene group, potentially evolving into a new species, she says.

"[The two groups] couldn't mate with each other so they'd get gradually different, just like chimpanzees and humans gradually became different 5 million years ago," she says.

"When two populations become two species there's generally there's some sort of wedge driven between them so they can't mate with each other.

"It might be a mountain range ... but it might be something fundamental like the way they determine sex has flipped to some new way."

15 million years and counting

Graves says there are only 45 genes left on the Y chromosome from "a grand total" of 1400.

It also contains a lot of 'pseudo genes', which look like they should work but don't, suggesting they've recently become defunct.

According to her projections the Y chromosome will disappear altogether in 15 million years.

This will occur because unlike the other coupled genes, the single Y chromosome can't recombine with a matching partner and refresh itself.

Mutations will build up and the mutated genes will eventually drop off the chromosome because they no longer perform any useful function.

Graves says this has already happened in the case of the mole vole, an aggressive little rodent that appears male and is able to reproduce despite having lost its Y chromosome.

XX men

Australian researcher Professor Andrew Sinclair, of Murdoch Childrens Research Institute, is researching so-called XX men, or the roughly one in 150,000 men who are born without a Y chromosome.

"What it's pointing to is the presence of new genes we haven't yet discovered to replace the ones on the Y chromosome," Sinclair says.

Alternately, the "volume" of previously existing genes may have been "turned up" in the absence of the Y genes, he says.

Sinclair's team is the first in the world to use new high-density gene chips to examine XX men in the hope of finding out which genes these are.

About 10% of affected men also have a tiny portion of the Y chromosome stuck on their X chromosome which carries across the testis determining gene, he says.

Sinclair says Grave's theory about a new human species could make sense "in a theoretical way" but is unlikely in reality.

"I don't know about a whole new species of human but if you lost the Y chromosome completely males would have to evolve in some way to deal with it," he says.

"If you have males without a Y chromosome I don't think I'd go as far as calling them a new species, but a new type of individual."

AFC but funny (and agree with few points)

1. If you think a girl is beautiful, she'll always have a boyfriend to
confirm that.

2. The nicer she is...the quicker u will be dumped!!!!!

3. The more the makeup, worse the looks...

4. "95% of the girls in this world are beautiful. Remaining 5% would
always be in your surrounding.".................100% true

5. The guy standing next to a beautiful girl can never be her real brother.

6. If by any chance the girl you like likes you too, she will let you
know in about 10 years from now, when you are committed...

7. The more you ignore a girl, the more she'll want to be friends with
you.

8. Theory of relativity......The more u run towards a hot chick....the
more she goes away from u...

9. Rule 1: Even if you got her out alone... just when you are about to
let her know about your feelings...she will spot a long lost friend.

Corollary to rule 1: The more desperate you are to tell your
feelings to a girl on a private chat, the more probability the long lost friend
she discovered is a handsome superman,who beats you in everything 9:1

Axiom 1: The more dedicated you are to the girl, the longer it takes
before things work out, but ultimately it will (some smile for the
guys)

10. The day the chick you really like comes and speaks to you will be
the day when -
1. You are dressed badly
2. You forgot to brush your teeth for the first time in your life
3. Have a bad hair day

11. All the good girls are either nuns or married. The rest go around
with u and ruin your money, health and leave u a total wreck.

12. The more seriously u like a girl...the more seriously her dad will
hate u.

13. The love you shower a girl with is directly proportional to the
number of bullets her dad will be showering at you.

Wednesday, August 09, 2006

Cold Read 5: Signature Style

SINGLE UNDERLINE BELOW THE SIGN

These persons are very confident and are good personalities. They are a little bit selfish but believe in "Happiness of human life".

TWO DOTS BELOW THE SIGN

These persons are considered to be Romantic, can easily change their fianc�es as if they change their clothes. They prefer beauty in other persons & they themselves try to look beautiful. They easily attract others.

SINGLE DOT BELOW THE SIGN

These persons are more inclined towards classical arts, simple & are very cool. If you loose faith with them, then these persons will never look back at you. Hence its always better to be careful with these people.

NO UNDERLINES OR DOTS BELOW THE SIGN

These persons enjoy their life in their own way, never pay attention to others views. These are considered to be good natured but are selfish too.

RANDOM SIGN, NO SIMILARITY BETWEEN NAME & SIGN

These persons try to be very smart, hide each & every matter, never say anything in straight forward manner, never pay attention to the other person of what he is talking of.

RANDOM SIGN, SIMILARITY BETWEEN NAME & SIGN

These persons are considered to be intelligent but never think. These people change their ideas & views as fast as the wind changes its direction of flow. They never think whether that particular thing is right or wrong. You can win them just by flattering them.

SIGN IN PRINTED LETTERS

These persons are very kind to us, have a good heart, selfless, are ready to sacrifice their life for the sake of their near & dear. But these seems to think a lot and may get angry very soon.

WRITING COMPLETE NAME AS THEIR SIGN

These persons are very kind hearted, can adjust themselves to any environment & to the person they are talking. These persons are very firm on their views & posses a lot of will power

Cold Read 4: Day of birth with color

If your birthday is on.. Scroll down to find out about your nature..
December 23rd - January 1st Red
January 2nd - January 11th Orange
January 12th - January 24th Yellow
January 25th - February 3 Pink
February 4th - February 8th Blue
February 9th - February 18th Green
February 19th - February 28th Brown
March1st - Match 10th Aqua
March 11 - March 20th Lime
March 21 st Black
March 22 nd - March 31st Purple
April 1st - April 10th Navy
April 11th - April 20th Silver
April 21st - April 30th White
May 2nd - May 14th Blue
May 15th - May 24th Gold
May 25th - June 3rd Cream
June 4th - June13th Gray
June 14 - June 23rd Maroon
June 24th Gray
June 25 - July 4th Red
July 5th - July 14th Orange
July 15th - July 25 th Yellow
July 26th - August 4 th Pink
August 5th - August 13th Blue
August 14th - August 23rd Green
August 24 - September 2nd Brown
September 3rd - September12th Aqua
September 13th - September 22nd Lime
September 23rd Olive
September 24th - October 3rd Purple
October 4th - October 13th Nave
October 14th - October 23rd Silver
October 24 - November 11th White
November 12th - November 21st Gold
November 22nd - December1st Cream
December 2nd - December11th Gray
December 12th - December 21st Maroon
December 22nd Teal



RED
Cute and lovable type, you are picky but always in love ...and liked to be loved. Fresh and cheerful, but can be "moody" at times. Capable with people, nice, soft, and that can love you for the way you are. Likes people that are easy to talk to, and can make you feel comfortable.

CREAM
Competitive and sportive. Don't like losing and always cheerful! You are trustworthy, and very out-going. You choose love carefully, and don't fall in love easily. But once you find the right one, you don't let go for a long long time.

TEAL

You are mostly interested in your looks. And have high standards in picking love. You think and make a solution precisely, and hardly make stupid mistakes. You like to lead, and is easy for you to make new friends.

GREY

You are attractive, and active. You never hide your feelings, and express everything that's inside. But can be selfish at times. You want to be noticed, and don't like to be treated unequally. You can brighten up people's day. You know what to say at the right time, and you have a good sense of humor.

GREEN

You get along well with new people. You are not really a shy person, but sometimes you can hurt people's feelings by your words... You like to be loved and noticed by your lover, but mostly you are single, waiting for the right person.

GOLD

You know what's right and what's wrong. You are cheerful and out going. It's hard for you to find the one you want, but once you find the right person, you won't be able to fall in love again for a long time.

PINK

You are always trying your best in everything, and like to help and care for other people. But you are not easily satisfied. You have negative thoughts, and you look for romantic love like in a fairytale.

YELLOW

You are sweet and innocent. Trusted by many people, and have a strong leadership towards relationships. You make good decision and make the right choice at the right time. And always dreaming of romantic relationship.

MAROON

You are intelligent, and know what's right. You like to take things go your way, which can sometimes cause trouble or not thinking about other people's feelings. But you are patient when it comes to love... Once you get a hold of the right person, it's hard for you to find a better love.

ORANGE

You are responsible for your own actions, and you know how to treat people. You always have goals to reach, and are competitive. When it comes to friendship, you find it hard to trust someone, but once you find the right friend, you trust them for ever.

PURPLE

You are mysterious, never selfish and get interested in things easily. Your day can be sad or happy depending on your mood. You are popular between friends but you can act stupid at times, and forget things easily. You go for person that's trustworthy.

LIME

You are calm, but easily stressed out. You get jealous easily, and complain over little things. You can't get stuck into one thing, but you have a capable personality for everyone to trust you and like you.

SILVER

You are imaginative and shy, but you like trying new things. You like to challenge yourself. You learn things easily, and like "Hard to get". Your love life is normally hard and confusing.

WHITE
You dream and have goals in your life. You get jealous easily and you don't react to things easily. You are different and sometimes thought highly by others.

OLIVE
You are warm and light hearted. You seem to flow well with friends and family. You don't like violence and know what's right. You are kind and cheerful, but don't envy other people easily.

BROWN
You are active and sportive. It's hard for other people to become close with you, but you fall in love easily. But once you find out you can't get something, you give up and let go easily as well.

BLUE

You have low self-esteem, and very picky. You are artistic and like to fall in love, but you let your love pass by, by loving with your mind, not your heart.

NAVY

You are attractive, and love your life. You have a strong feeling towards everything. And very easily distracted. Once you get angry at someone, it's hard for you to forgive them.

AQUA

Your feelings change suddenly and easily. You are always lonely, and like travelling. You are truthful, but listen and believe other people too easily. It's hard to find love for you, and you get lost in love easily. Sometimes you get hurt by love.

BLACK

You are challenging, and have the "guts". But you don't like changes in your life. And once you make a decision, you keep it that way for a long time. Your love life is also challenging, and different.

ORANGE

You are responsible for your own actions, and you know how to treat people. You always have goals to reach, and are competitive. When it comes to friendship, you find it hard to trust someone, but once you find the right friend, you trust them for ever.

Cold Read 3: Month of birth

JANUARY

*Ambitious and serious *Loves to teach and be taught *Always looking at people's flaws and weaknesses *Likes to criticize *Hardworking and productive *Smart, neat and organised *Sensitive and has deep thoughts *Knows how to make others happy *Quiet unless excited or tensed *Rather reserved *Highly attentive *Resistant to illnesses but prone to colds *Romantic but has difficulties expressing love *Loves children *Homely person *Loyal *Needs to improve social abilities *Easily jealous.

FEBRUARY

*Abstract thoughts *Loves reality and abstract *Intelligent and clever *Changing personality *Temperamental *Quiet, shy and humble *Low self esteem *Honest and loyal *Determined to reach goals *Loves freedom *Rebellious when restricted *Loves aggressiveness *Too sensitive and easily hurt *Showing anger easily *Dislike unnecessary things *Loves making friends but rarely shows it *Daring and stubborn *Ambitious *Realizing dreams and hopes *Sharp *Loves entertainment and leisure *Romantic on the inside not outside *Superstitious and ludicrous *Spendthrift *Learns to show emotions.

MARCH

*Attractive personality *Affectionate *Shy and reserved *Secretive *Naturally honest, generous and sympathetic *Loves peace and serenity *Sensitive to others *Loves to serve others *Not easily angered *Trustworthy *Appreciative and returns kindness *Observant and assess others *Revengeful *Loves to dream and fantasize *Loves traveling *Loves attention *Hasty decisions in choosing partners *Loves home decors *Musically talented *Loves special things *Moody.

APRIL

*Active and dynamic *Decisive and haste but tends to regret *Attractive and affectionate to oneself *Strong mentality *Loves attention *Diplomatic *Consoling *Friendly and solves people's problems *Brave and fearless *Adventurous *Loving and caring *Suave and generous *Emotional *Revengeful *Aggressive *Hasty *Good memory *Moving *Motivate oneself and the others *Sickness usually of the head and chest *Easily get too jealous.

MAY

*Stubborn and hard-hearted *Strong-willed and highly motivated *Sharp thoughts *Easily angered *Attracts others and loves attention *Deep feelings *Beautiful physically and mentally *Firm standpoint *Easily influenced *Needs no motivation *Easily consoled *Systematic (left brain) *Loves to dream *Strong clairvoyance *Understanding *Sickness usually in the ear and neck *Good imagination *Good debating skills *Good physical *Weak breathing *Loves literature and the arts *Loves traveling *Dislike being at home *Restless *Hardworking *High spirited *Spendthrift

JUNE

*Thinks far with vision *Easily influenced by kindness *Polite and soft-spoken *Having lots of ideas *Sensitive *Active mind *Hesitating *Tends to delay *Choosy and always wants the best *Temperamental *Funny and humorous *Loves to joke *Good debating skills *Talkative *Daydreamer *Friendly *Knows how to make friends *Abiding *Able to show character *Easily hurt *Prone to getting colds *Loves to dress up *Easily bored *Fussy *Seldom show emotions *Takes time to recover when hurt *Brand conscious *Executive *Stubborn *Those who loves me are enemies *Those who hates me are friends.

JULY

*Fun to be with *Secretive *Difficult to fathom and to be understood *Quiet unless excited or tensed *Takes pride in oneself *Has reputation *Easily consoled *Honest *Concern about people's feelings *Tactful *Friendly *Approachable *Very emotional *Temperamental and unpredictable *Moody and easily hurt *Witty and starkly *Sentimental *Not revengeful *Forgiving but never forgets *Dislike nonsensical and unnecessary things *Guides others physically and mentally *Sensitive and forms impressions carefully *Caring and loving *Treats others equally *Strong sense of sympathy *Wary and sharp *Judge people through observations *Hardworking *No difficulties in studying *Loves to be alone *Always broods about the past and the old friends *Likes to be quiet *Homely person *Waits for friends *Never looks for friends *Not aggressive unless provoked *Prone to having stomach and dieting problems *Loves to be loved *Easily hurt but takes long to recover *Overly concerned *Puts in effort in work.

AUGUST

*Loves to joke *Attractive *Suave and caring *Brave and fearless *Firm and has leadership qualities *Knows how to console others *Too generous and egoistic *Take high pride of oneself *Thirsty for praises *Extraordinary spirit *Easily angered *Angry when provoked *Easily jealous *Observant *Careful and cautious *Thinks quickly *Independent thoughts *Loves to lead and to be led *Loves to dream *Talented in the arts, music and defense *Sensitive but not petty *Poor resistance against illnesses *Learns to relax *Hasty and rusty *Romantic *Loving and caring *Loves to make friends.

SEPTEMBER

*Suave and compromising *Careful, cautious and organized *Likes to point out people's mistakes *Likes to criticize *Quiet but able to talk well *Calm and cool *Kind and sympathetic *Concerned and detailed *Trustworthy, loyal and honest *Does work well *Sensitive *Thinking *Good memory *Clever and knowledgeable *Loves to look for information *Must control oneself when criticizing *Able to motivate oneself *Understanding *Secretive *Loves sports, leisure and traveling *Hardly shows emotions *Tends to bottle up feelings *Choosy especially in relationships *Loves wide things *Systematic.

OCTOBER

*Loves to chat *Loves those who loves him *Loves to takes things at the center *Attractive and suave *Inner and physical beauty *Does not lie or pretend *Sympathetic *Treats friends importantly *Always making friends *Easily hurt but recovers easily *Bad tempered *Selfish *Seldom helps unless asked *Daydreamer *Very opinionated *Does not care of what others think *Emotional *Decisive *Strong clairvoyance *Loves to travel, the arts and literature *Soft-spoken, loving and caring *Romantic *Touchy and easily jealous *Concerned *Loves outdoors *Just and fair *Spendthrift and easily influenced *Easily lose confidence.

NOVEMBER

*Has a lot of ideas *Difficult to fathom *Thinks forward *Unique and brilliant *Extraordinary ideas *Sharp thinking *Fine and strong clairvoyance *Can become good doctors *Careful and cautious *Dynamic in personality *Secretive *Inquisitive *Knows how to dig secrets *Always thinking *Less talkative but amiable *Brave and generous *Patient *Stubborn and hard-hearted *If there is a will, there is a way *Determined *Never give up *Hardly become angry unless provoked *Loves to be alone *Thinks differently from others *Sharp-minded *Motivates oneself *Does not appreciate praises *High-spirited *Well-built and tough *Deep love and emotions *Romantic *Uncertain in relationships *Homely *Hardworking *High abilities *Trustworthy *Honest and keeps secrets *Not able to control emotions *Unpredictable.

DECEMBER

*Loyal and generous *Patriotic *Active in games and interactions *Impatient and hasty *Ambitious *Influential in organizations *Fun to be with *Loves to socialize *Loves praises *Loves attention *Loves to be loved *Honest and trustworthy *Not pretending *Short tempered *Changing personality *Not egoistic *Takes high pride in oneself *Hates restrictions *Loves to joke *Good sense of humor *Logical.

Cold Read 2: The name initial

Does your name begin with: A
U are not particularly romantic, but you are interested in action.You mean business. With you, what you see is what you get.You have no patience for flirting and can't be bothered with someone who is trying to be coy, cute, demure, and subtly enticing. You are an up-front person. You often don't get hints & you ever pass any. Brains turn you on. You must feel that your partner is! intellectually stimulating, otherwise you will find it difficult to sustain the relationship. You require loving, cuddling, wining, and dining to know that you're being appreciated. Your mate's physical attractiveness is important for you. You tend to be very Practical, & not very emotional Your choices are very good & can only lead to trouble. You are very self satisfied & egoistic.
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Does your name begin with: B
You give off vibes of lazy sensuality. You enjoy being romanced, wined, and dined. You are very happy to receive gifts as an _______expression of the affection of your lover. You want to be pampered and know how to pamper your mate. You are private in your _______expression of endearments, and particular when it comes to love. You will hold off until everything meets with your approval. You can control your appetite & feelings. You require new sensations and experiences. You are willing to experiment.

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Does your name begin with: C
You are a very social individual, and it is important to you to have a relationship. You require closeness and togetherness . You want the object of your affection to be socially acceptable and good-looking. You see your lover as a friend and companion. You are very sensual, Needing someone to appreciate and almost worship you. When this cannot be achieved, you have the ability to hold out on affection until you receive this.. You are an expert at controlling your desires and doing without.
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Does your name begin with: D
Once you get it into your head that you want someone, you move full Steam ahead in your suit. You do not give up your quest easily. You are nurturing and caring. If someone has a problem, this turns you on . You are highly passionate, loyal, and intense in your involvement's, sometimes possessive and jealous. You are very sharp & talented often with sense of humour. When people bother to look deep inside they cannot resist what they see. You are stimulated by the eccentric and unusual, having a free and open attitude. You get jealous of other people and lose your temper .
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Does your name begin with: E
Your greatest need is to talk . If your date is not a good listener, you have trouble relating. A person must be intellectually stimulating or you are not interested sexually. You need a friend for a lover and a companion You hate disharmony and disruption, but you do enjoy a good argument once in a while-it seems to stir things up. You flirt a lot, for the challenge is more important. But once you give your heart away, you are uncompromisingly loyal. You will fall asleep with a good book. sometimes, in fact, you prefer a good book to a lover)
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Does your name begin with: F
You are idealistic and romantic, putting your lover on a pedestal. You look for the very best mate you can find . You are a flirt, yet once committed, you are very loyal. You are sensuous and privately passionate. Publicly, you can be showy, extravagant, and gallant. You are a born romantic. Dramatic love scenes are a favourite fantasy past time. You can be a very generous lover. ___________________________________________________________
Does your name begin with: G
You are fastidious, seeking perfection within yourself and your lover. You respond to a lover who is yourintellectual equal or superior, and one who can enhance your status. You are sensuous and know how to reach the peak of stimulation, because you work at it meticulously. You can be extremely active-never tiring out. Your duties and responsibilities take precedence over everything else. You may have difficulty getting emotionally close to people. ___________________________________________________________
Does your name begin with: H
You seek a mate who can enhance your zest for life ,fun & everything You seek for. You will be very generous to your lover once you have Attained a commitment. You are very affectionate & very strong. Your gifts are actually an investment in your partner. Before the commitment, though, you tend to be very careful with your every move and equally cautious in your involvement's often as you believe that you have to look out for yourself. You are a sensual and patient lover. You will hold off till everything meets your full approval. Yo! u are a perfectionist , hard to satisfy and strong in your beliefs. Not influential, you always stand your ground. People can always count on you to stand by them in a crisis. You are a dreamer with/ a passion for life.
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Does your name begin with: I
You have a great need to be loved, appreciated... even worshiped . You enjoy luxury, sensuality, and pleasures of the flesh. You like necking spend hours just touching feeling & exploring. You look for lovers who know what they are doing. You are not interested in an amateur, unless that amateur wants a tutor. You are fussy and exacting about having your desires satisfied. You are willing to experiment and try new modes of _______expression . You bore easily and thus require adventure and change. Your commitments don't last very long & you often tend to stray. Loyalty is not one of! your strong points. You are more sensual than sexual, but you are sometimes downright lustful.
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Does your name begin with: J
You are blessed with a great deal of physical energy. When used for a good cause there is nothing to stop you, except maybe that they aren't always used for the good. (you could dance all night.) You respond to the thrill of the chase and the challenge of the mating game.You can carry on great romances in your head. At heart you are a roamer and need to set out on your own every so often. You will carry on long- distance relationships with ease. You are idealistic and need to believe in love. You have a need to be nurtured deep within.

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Does your name begin with: K
You are secretive , self-contained, and shy. You are very sexy, sensual, and passionate, but you do not let on to this. Only in intimate privacy will this part of your nature reveal itself. When it gets down to the nitty-gritty, you are an expert. You know all the little tricks of the trade, can play any role or any game , and take your love life very seriously. You don't fool around. You have the patience to wait for the right person to come along. You are very generous & giving, often selfless. You are kind-natured & sweet, which is found to be attractive by many. You are a good friend.

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Does your name begin with: L
You can be very romantic, attached to the glamour of love. Having a partner is of paramount importance to you. You are free in your _______expression of love and are willing to take chances, try new sexual experiences and partners, provided it's all in good taste. Brains turn you on . You must feel that your partner is intellectually stimulating, otherwise you will find it difficult to sustain the relationship. You require loving, cuddling, wining, and dining to know that you're being appreciated. "You require loving, cuddling, wining, and dining to know that you're being appreciated ".
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Does your name begin with: M
You may appear innocent, unassuming and shy; but we know that Appearances can lie. When it comes to sex, you are no novice but something of a skilled technician. You can easily go to extremes, though, running the gamut from insatiability to boredom with the whole idea of love. You can be highly critical of you mate, seeking perfection in both of you. It is not easy to find someone who can meet your standards. You have difficulty expressing emotions and drawing close to lovers. You are often selfish, thinking you are always right no matter what. You never give in. Winning is your prime desire- at any cost. You often forget friends and family and you live for the moment.
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Does your name begin with: N
You are emotional and intense . When involved in a relationship, you Throw your entire being into it. Nothing stops you; there are no holds barred. You are all-consuming and crave someone who is equally passionate and intense. You believe in total freedom . You are willing to try anything and everything. Your supply of energy is inexhaustible. You want to be pampered and know how to pamper your mate. You also enjoy mothering your mate. You often have the greatest love affairs all by yourself, in your head. You are very imaginative.

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Does your name begin with: O
You are very interested in fun activities yet secretive and shy about your desires. You can re-channel much of your energy into making money and/or seeking we. You can easily have extended periods of celibacy. You are a passionate, compassionate lover, requiring the same qualities From your mate. Love is serious business; thus you demand intensity, diversity and is willing to try anything or anyone. Sometimes your passions turn to possessiveness , which must be kept in check.
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Does your name begin with: P
You are very conscious of social proprieties. You wouldn't think of Doing anything that might harm your image or Reputation. Appearances count . Therefore, you require a good-looking partner. You also require an intelligent partner. Oddly enough, you may view your partner as your enemy...a good fight stimulates those vibes . You are relatively free of hang- ups.You are willing to experiment and try new ways of doing things.You are very social and sensual; you enjoy flirting and need a good deal of physical gratification.
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Does your name begin with: Q
You require constant activity and stimulation. You have tremendous physical energy . It is not easy for a partner to keep up with you. You are an enthusiastic lover and tend to be attracted to people because of their ethnic groups. You need romance, hearts and flowers, and conversation to turn you on and keep you going.
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Does your name begin with: R
You are a no-nonsense, action-oriented individual . You need someone who can keep pace with you and who is your intellectual equal-the smarter the better. You are turned on more quickly by a great mind than by a great body. However, physical attractiveness is not very important to you. You have to be proved to be worthy for a partner. You have a need to prove yourself the best . You want feedback on your performance. You are open, stimulating & romantic.
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Does your name begin with: S
For you, it is pleasure before business. You can be romantically idealistic to a fault and is capable of much sensuality. But you never loose control of your emotions. Once you make the commitment you stick like glue . You could get jealous and possessive. You like being the centre of attention. You are very caring sensitive, private & sometimes very passive. Turned on by soft lights, romantic thoughts. When it gets down to the nitty-gritty, you are an expert . You know all the little tricks of the trade, can play any role, or any game, and take your love life very seriously. You don't fool around. You have the patience to wait for the rightperson to come along. You are very generous &am! p; giving, often selfless. You are kind nature & sweet which is found to be attractive by many. You are a good friend.
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Does your name begin with: T
You are very sensitive, private & sometimes very passive. You like someone who takes the lead. You get turned on by music , soft lights & romantic thoughts. You fantasize & tend to fall in & out of love soon. When in love you are romantic, idealistic, mushy & extremely. You enjoy having your senses & your feelings stimulated, titillated & teased. You are a great flirt . You can make your relationships fit your dreams, all in your own head. Once you put your mind to something you manage to stand by it and see your dreams through. You aren't very good at expressing your feelings. You like things your own way. You do not like change, you like to hold on to things. This may not always be good because if given an opportunity things may develop into great thing! s. You work your way to the top. Attention must be given to what others say because even though you don't want to hear it their advice may turn out to save your life. !
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Does your name begin with: U
You are enthusiastic & at your happiest when in love . When not in love you're in love with love and always looking for someone to adore. You see romance as challenge. You are a roamer & needs adventure, excitement freedom. You enjoy giving gifts & looking good. You are willing to put others feelings above yours.
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Does your name begin with: V
You are individualistic & you need freedom, space & excitement. You wait till you know someone well before committing yourself. Knowing someone means psyching her/him out. You feel a need to get into his/her head to see what makes him tick. You are attracted to eccentric types. You believe that age is no barrier. You are good at responding to danger, fear & suspense.
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Does your name begin with: W
You are very proud , determined & refuses to take no for an answer when it come to love. Your ego is at stake all the time. You are romantic, idealistic, often in love with love itself, not seeing your partner for who she or he really is. You feel deeply about love & tends to throw all of your self into a relationship. Nothing is too good for your lover. You like playing love games.
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Does your name begin with: X
You need constant stimulation because you get bored quickly . You can handle more than 1 relationship at a time with ease. You can't shut off your mind. You can do 2 things at once. You are very talented.
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Does your name begin with: Y
You are sensual & very independent. If you can't have it your way, you will forget the whole thing . You want to control your relationships which doesn't work out too well. You respond to physical stimulation. However if you can make money you will give up the pleasures of the flesh for the moment. You have a need to prove yourself the best. You want feedback on your performance. You are open, stimulating & romantic.

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Does your name begin with: Z
You are very romantic but show feels that to love means to suffer.

Tuesday, August 08, 2006

Evolution of homosexual breed

Lately I have been coming across homosexual people on regular basis and I couldn’t understand the reason behind such orientation. What could possibly be wrong in their genetic hardwiring that they are more attracted to the same sex then opposite sex? It isn’t some sort of cult as it was in medieval times.

On basis of the research, I have found possible reasons that have made this culture existence possible.

 As a child the person was more brought up by the same sex more and they lost value for opposite sex. (Daughters brought up by mother in absence of father or was student in all female school and they never got chance to understand themselves and preferred the same sex forever)

 Society not permitting the opposite sex talking about sex to people of opposite sex and hence they had strong sexual drives and needed someone to enhance their drive

 72% of people feel horny while watching porn and they love feeling of feeling it. They have strong desire to perform sexual moves and they cannot find person of opposite sex to father their drive. However, as high as 69% of people have masturbated during their puberty, while 78% of people have by age of 18 on planet. Those figures shows the reason how much they have desire for sex and mental frustration they go through when they don’t have sex by age of 21.

 93% of women, who masturbate, do it in the shower. As they fear family knowing about their sexual drive.

 All above reasons I have mentioned are due to sexual frustration and reason of more then half percent of population, which have performed homosexual activity. Nevertheless, there is issue of hardwiring too. The mutual disrespect between father and mother or relative of person that produced fear in mind of child what can possibly be consequences of selection of wrong partner are deeply plant in the brain.

I have covered the reasons possible for complete homosexual people but there is another type called bisexual type. The possible reason of evolution of such type is-

• More attachment to same sex of parent while being normal self.

• Being adventurous person and want to try every possible situation themselves and see what happens. Though this is more of reason that female tend to be more bi then male. As their hardwiring is little shifty in nature while males is more sorted out and female tend to be more emotion oriented then male. They love touching every single emotion. They enjoy BDSM culture too due similar reason while for others they loved to be abuse thanks to their parenting in family. They tend to be more low self-esteem and they don’t feel homely without being hit on.

The last type is guy-chicks/ tomboy or cross dresser/feminine boy and they have only one reason to be so and that is:

 They had more affection to opposite sex parents and loved to join them whatever they did or having more opposite sex people responsible in their bringing up. Like being only brother or being only sister in family or lack of affection from same sex parent.

Ideas matching

I found more research content who would relate to and support my ideas.

http://www.laddertheory.com

Dreams are relevant

I didn't realize this till little while ago that every dream we human see is technically possible. I would never be able to dream myself as part of some cartoon movie or some monster coming my way because my mind doesnt have map to make that dream come true. Your mind shows you dream which is possible for you to complete. Some dream may seem impossible for you. If it is good dream and you cant accomplish it, it is because you aint motivated enough to do it. While nightmares come true because your mind pushes you towards it more.

Eg. (excerpt from book Vital lies simple truth). In kansas 70% of accident happen with car banging in some pole. While pole are football size field apart, it didnt make any sense.
When survey was dnoe, Generally people said when there was emergency they would look for object they wanted to avoid most and while thinking how to avoid it they unconsiously turned thier steering wheels towards the pole.

CPR cure

You're really tired, upset and frustrated.

Suddenly you start experiencing severe pain in your
chest that starts to adiate out into your arm and up
into your jaw. You are only about five miles from the
hospital nearest your home. Unfortunately you don't
know if you'll be able to make it that far. You have
been trained in CPR, but the guy that taught the
course did not tell you how to perform it on yourself.

HOW TO SURVIVE A HEART ATTACK WHEN ALONE
Since many people are alone when they suffer a heart
attack, without help,the person whose heart is beating
improperly and who begins to feel faint, has only
about 10 seconds left before losing consciousness.

However,these victims can help themselves by coughing
repeatedly and very vigorously. A deep breath should
be taken before each cough, and the cough must be deep
and prolonged, as when producing sputum from deep
inside the chest.

A breath and a cough must be repeated about every two
seconds without let-up until help arrives, or until
the heart is felt to be beating normally again.

Deep breaths get oxygen into the lungs and coughing
movements squeeze the heart and keep the blood
circulating. The squeezing pressure on the heart also
helps it regain normal rhythm. In this way, heart
attack victims can get to a hospital.

Thanks to Orkut user for this post.

Cold Reading 1 :Spelling of name

Instructions: What you do is find out what each letter of your name means. Then connect all the meanings and it describes YOU. (Its TRUE!!) (Isn't it GREAT!!)


PS: If you have double or triple letters, just count the meaning once.


For Example: my name is Cody

C - You definitely have a partier side in you, don't be shy to show it.

O - You are very open-minded.

D - You have trouble trusting people.

Y - You cause a lot of trouble.
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A - You can be very quiet when you have something on your mind.


B - You are always cautious when it comes to meeting new people.


C - You definitely have a partier side in you, don't be shy to show it.


D - You have trouble trusting people.


E - You are a very exciting person.


F - Everyone loves you.


G - You have excellent ways of viewing people.


H- You are not judgmental.


I - You are always smiling and making others smile.


J - Jealously


K - You like to try new things.


L - Love is something you deeply believe in.


M - Success comes easily to you.


N - You like to work, but you always want a break.


O - You are very open-minded.


P - You are very friendly and understanding.


Q - You are a hypocrite.


R - You are a social butterfly.


S - You are very broad-minded.


T - You have an attitude, a big one.


U - You feel like you have to equal up to people's standards.


V - You have a very good physique and looks.


W - You like your privacy.


X - You never let people tell you what to do.


Y - You cause a lot of trouble.


Z - You're always fighting with someone